Tips to Build Up Good Relationship

When my husband has a lot of going on and he’ll be sitting in his man cave and he’ll be working on something. And you know, a project or whatever. Maybe he’s on the computer or something like that. If I just go in there and I slide my hands right around his shoulders and his neck. And I just start massaging and rubbing his neck, he melts right there in the chair.

It is amazing. I can literally feel his energy calm right down. When I am having that experience with him and we’re having that, you know, I’m touching his body and he’s feeling me touches his body. And he’s feeling me loved and appreciate him. Just act that new level. And it doesn’t have to be very long. It doesn’t have to be like, you know, an hour massage. Just like a nice little, you know, even if it is 2 minutes, 2 minutes. Just to rub his neck and let him know that I love him, I appreciate him and I care about him. And I’m really grateful for what he does for our family. So, that one makes a good, big difference. Now, when you do the massage, you want to make sure, like really like getting in to these, these muscles right here.

The one’s that’s right here by the neck. That where men carry a lot of stress. And a lot, you know, on their shoulders. So, really get in to that area right there. It will make a huge difference for how you feel connected. And when you feel connected to him, he’s going to feel connected to you and that will seriously spice up your life, you love life. 

This is a fun one. It’s okay to just like have a visual surprise. When you’re, you know, having a lot of going on in your life. And he’s going his direction and your going in your direction. And maybe you haven’t a lot of time to be together. Every once in a while a little visual surprise is kind of fun for him. Men are so… They’re just visual. They want… What’s in front of them, what they see really goes inside of their mind and in their body. And if you can give them that little visual surprise, oh my goodness, you’ve just got him in the palm of your hand my friend.

So, every once in a while I give him that visual surprise. Might be just a little neck or shoulder. But you know, every once in a while maybe even more than that, that’s a good idea. To just have that little extra spice in your life and your love life. 

When my husband… When he’s got his mind so consumed and so full of all the different responsibilities that he has, when I take a moment and really let him know that he matters. He loves it. And it just make him feel like, what he’s doing is… Has a purpose, has a reason. When he feels that he matters to you and when he feels that he matters to your family, your kids, maybe the people that he works with, maybe the neighbors, whoever. When he feels he matters, when he feels he’s important. He can do so much more in his life. And that will seriously spice up your love life. 

And when you have an experience where you both going in different directions, it’s just those small little moments that you can do. These simple, simple things that will keep that connection and keep that love of life and love spiced up in your marriage or your love life. And that’s what I got for you today. Hey, I’d love to know. Which of the things that you’re going to try to spice up your relationship? Let me know in the comments below. Hey, if you have watched this far, go ahead and subscribe. So you can get more and we’ll see you tomorrow..